一段健康的友谊,
需要具备这两个要素
不健康的友谊
会对我们造成什么样的影响
哪些人容易陷入不健康的友谊
(为什么说共情能力太强反而会让人不开心?点击查看↓)
身处一段不健康的友谊里,
我们应该怎么办
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