开言到今年已经迈入了第十年!大家的支持和喜爱是我们能走到今天的支柱,而Jenny也即将迈入40。今天的节目,听她分享进入中年的各种感受吧。
Jenny is turning 40: Jenny马上要40岁了
Officially entering middle age: 正式进入中年
Midlife: 中年
“中年”既可以用middle age,也可以用midlife,但英文里的“中年危机”,会用到midlife
Midlife crisis: 中年危机
Going through a midlife crisis: 经历中年危机
Many people are going through a crisis at 30: 很多人也在经历30危机
Life stages/stages of life: 人生阶段
40不惑
Not to be confused: 不迷惑、不困惑
Not to be tempted: 不被诱惑
Confucius: 孔子
Confucius said, "At 40, one begins to not be confused or tempted." 或 "At 40, one's confusion or temptation melts away." 孔子说,40不惑
英语还有个说法
Life begins at 40: 人生40岁才开始
There are a lot of responsibilities and sources of stress at 40: 40岁有很多责任和压力
The sandwich generation: “三明治一代”,也就是上有老、下有小,像三明治的结构,被夹在中间
Career stress: 事业压力
Afraid of being overtaken/surpassed/replaced by the younger generation: 长江后浪推前浪,担心被年轻一代追上、取代
Self: 自己、个人
Life has passed the half-way mark, what have I done/achieved/accomplished? 人生过半,我做了什么?有什么成就?
Does my life really have any meaning? 我的人生有何意义?
Life forces you to ask yourself these soul-searching questions: 人生逼着你对自己提出这些灵魂拷问
40岁,人生才刚开始
Jenny说自己其实30岁的时候更加彷徨、迷茫
I was more anxious when I was 30: 我30岁的时候更焦虑
So I can really empathize with those who are feeling the 30 crisis: 所以特别能体会30危机的朋友
I lost my job at 30 during team restructuring: 我30岁时因为团队重组失业了
(Jenny当时在一家线上教外国人中文的公司工作,以音频课程形式教学,和开言很像)
Felt very uncertain about my future: 对未来很不安、很迷惘
Jenny说找到未来方向的关键是花时间认真思考自己最热爱、最愿意为之付出、最有经验的是什么?答案是中英文语言和文化的交流、教学。所以,在家人的鼓励下开始创业,也就有了开言❤️
坦然面对中年
unfazed by something: 不惧怕、不惊恐
unfazed by turning 40: 坦然面对40岁
You can't turn back time. Might as well face it head on:不能让时间倒流,那就坦然面对吧
Very grateful for God's guidance: 作为基督徒,Jenny感恩神的带领
So grateful for my team, coworkers and most of all, the users for making the past 10 years so fruitful: 感恩我的团队同事们,还有最重要的是,那么支持我们的用户们。谢谢你们让我过去10年的人生硕果累累!
Love you guys! 爱你们!
听众中应该也有不少Jenny的同龄人,欢迎分享你们的感受!